An important part of forgiving someone is to try to empathize with them and see their flaws as a part of their being human.
Yes, I want him to feel every bit of my pain in an empathetic way.
It is like stabbing you at the back without you knowing it.
This is because the person whom you trusted the most is the one who betrayed you.
If you aren't willing to forgive someone, or the person feels no remorse for their actions, then true forgiveness may be unobtainable.
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We do have the right to express our pain.
I betrayed my partner during a separation and I feel terrible for lying to her about it and for doing it in the first place.